I’m A Feminist But I Still Want A Guy To Do These 12 Things When We’re Dating

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8. BUY ME RANDOM FLOWERS.

It’s such an underused move. Sure, I might get flowers on an anniversary or Valentine’s Day, but what about first date flowers, or flowers just because I’m awesome and he appreciates me? It should really be a more common thing because there’s plenty to celebrate. Bring back the flowers, guys!

9. WRITE ME A NOTE.

Aside from the fact that people rarely call anymore, what about writing letters or simply just jotting down a little note? If a guy documents a few kind thoughts to me, it’s a little piece of love I can hold onto forever and something I can always look back on later. It’s silly and romantic and it only takes a few minutes. Why not?

10. GIVE ME GENUINE COMPLIMENTS.


This is probably the easiest thing a guy can do, and something he should do often. Just one small compliment can go a long way. Personally, I love when a guy says he had a fun time with me or thinks I’m funny. Those things stick in my brain and make me feel even better about myself.

11. TAKE ME SOMEPLACE NICE.

I’m a very easygoing person—date night in for me is ideal. If we go out, I enjoy going to the movies or grabbing some burgers. However, every now and then I like to go some place nice where you actually have to dress up. It’s nice to look especially good for each other now and then and to enjoy some of the finer things in life.

12. MAKE ALL THE PLANS.

I want a guy to take charge here. If he’s indecisive, he can get over it. I’m a boss in every other area in my life. In relationships, I want him to make the plans so I can just go along for the ride. Somewhere along the way, I think guys got extremely lazy and stopped being creative in this sense. I like a guy who can step up and show me a good time.

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