A Zen Master Reveals The Ultimate Way To Deal With Haters

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The internet is filled with trolls. Trolling – as defined by the virtual society – is nothing but an act of aggression. And a human beings impulse to troll is an ancient thing. Kierkegaard was driven to analyze trolling psychological underpinnings because of such a pervasive manifestation. It also led Benjamin Franklin to create a grand strategy to encounter trolls or haters.

It’s a known fact that the act of hate reflect the action of the hater and not their victim. This cynical urge to force our inner pain to take a form of aggression attracts absurd targets. And one of them was Seung Sahn Soen-sa – a Korean-born Zen Master.

Seung Sahn Soen-sa’s book “Dropping Ashes on the Buddha: The Teachings of Zen Master Seung Sahn Soen-sa” contained many illuminating and sympathetic letters. The letters were his remarkable response to – what in modern times can be called – hate mail.

Seung Sahn Soen-sa received many letters in March 1975 from one of his students. The letters expressed a lot of confusion related to one of the Zen practices of “don’t know mind.” The student – therefore – demanded many clarifications but in a colorful language!

Here is the first letter from the student in regards to not understanding the “don’t know mind”:

Please answer me soon, but you probably won’t, huh? Anyway, I’d like to tell you to go fuck yourself.

Respectfully, and hope to see you soon, See Hoy

Soen-sa’s response:

You say that you are confused. If you keep a complete don’t-know mind, how can confusion appear? Complete don’t-know mind means cutting off all thinking. Cutting off all thinking means true emptiness. In true emptiness, there is no I to be confused and nothing to be confused about.

A kong-an is like a finger pointing at the moon. If you are attached to the finger, you don’t understand the direction, so you cannot see the moon. If you are not attached to any kong-an, then you will understand the direction. The direction is the complete don’t-know mind.

You must keep only don’t-know, always and everywhere. Then you will soon get enlightenment. But be very careful not to want enlightenment. Only keep don’t-know mind. Your situation, your condition, your opinions — throw them all away.

At the end of your letter you say, “Go fuck yourself.” These are wonderful words that you have given me, and I thank you very much. If you attain enlightenment, I will give them back to you.

Sincerely yours, S. S.

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